Gender Expression 101: Tips and Tools On Gender Presentation
Learn about items, tips and resources for playing around with your own outward gender presentation.
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Beth Hankes
- Jan 20
- 7 min
Paradoxes of Pleasure: The Big D
A deep dive into the paradox of differentiation in relationships, discovering 'The Big D' through non-monogamy, and lessons learned.
Beth Hankes
- Jan 20
- 3 min
Paradoxes of Pleasure: How Earth and Salt Came Into Being
The Paradoxes of Pleasure series is one part origin store, one part personal reflection, and many parts "wow, wtf!" This is the...
Beth Hankes
- Jan 4
- 1 min
Trying to Decode Your Desires? Try a Yes No Maybe List!
Want to delve deeper into your sexual desires? "Yes No Maybe" Lists are helpful tools for figuring out what you are interested in sexually.
Beth Hankes
- Nov 11, 2022
- 3 min
A Sexy + Sultry Holiday Gift Guide
The giving is truly good this year; read on to find gift ideas that will add some extra spice and sexiness to your holiday season
Leah Endler
- Oct 22, 2022
- 4 min
Suction Toys: Everything You Wanted to Know about these Pleasure Wonders
Suction toys suck, but in the best of ways. Find out what makes these toys unique, how to use them, and our favorite choices!
Sarah Diedrick
- Oct 5, 2022
- 2 min
The Rose - A Suction Toy With More than Meets the Eye
The Rose suction toy is one of the most popular suction toys out there; but does it really live up to the hype?
Leah Endler
- Aug 26, 2022
- 4 min
If you like it, put a ring on it! A cock ring, that is.
Cock rings are a great toy for people with penises (and their partners) to increase pleasure and longevity in the bedroom.
Beth Hankes
- Jul 1, 2022
- 1 min
Resources for Pleasure, Health, and Community
A running list of resources, local and national, that may be of use to you in cultivating your pleasure, health, and connection to community
Sarah Diedrick
- Feb 15, 2022
- 4 min
Accessing Pleasure Through Mindfulness
In the age of our fast-paced, multitasking, social media-driven society, it can feel harder and harder to enjoy moments of slowness....
Beth Hankes
- Nov 17, 2021
- 2 min
Sexy and Sensual Gift Ideas for Friends, Lovers, and Yourself this Holiday Season
Tis the season for giving and getting, my lovelies! Who's on your list this year? Are they naughty, nice, or the perfect mix of both?
Beth Hankes
- Oct 13, 2021
- 4 min
The Big Wide World of Wearable Vibrators
Curious about wearable vibes? Get all the details on what makes these toys unique, and sexy specifics on each toy available in the shop.
Aly Albertson @ Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum
- Sep 22, 2021
- 6 min
Negotiating Casual Sex with Yourself and Others
Create your own definition of what casual sex means to you before, or while, engaging in it!
Aly Albertson @ Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum
- Sep 1, 2021
- 6 min
Friends with Benefits for the Win
Sex with friends can be a valuable, fun experience where folks can explore sex and intimacy with someone who they already know.
Aly Albertson @ Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum
- Aug 6, 2021
- 6 min
Communication is Sexy
Aly Albertson covers the why and how of communication for abundant pleasure in casual sex relationships.
Aly Albertson @ Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum
- Jul 19, 2021
- 7 min
Hot Vax Summer: Casual Sex in the Time of COVID
The Casual Sex Series Casual sex has become a hot topic and can be an even hotter activity. Casual sex is something we see all over the...
Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum
- Jun 21, 2021
- 3 min
Dame Aer Review: A Super Satisfying Suction Toy
Today's post is from the dynamic duo at Queer Sex Ed Community Curriculum, Al Albertson and Heather Welty. Learn more about their...
Beth Hankes
- May 19, 2021
- 2 min
Sexy Essentials for Summer 2021
Summer-like weather has set in early in Vermont, and the hope of a somewhat-normal summer here has me excited. People! Hugs! Parties!...
Beth Hankes
- May 18, 2021
- 6 min
The Sexy Science Behind Buzzy vs. Rumbly Vibrators
This article is brought to you by the lovely folks at Je Joue. Sophisticated, elegantly naughty and a sensual treat, Je Joue sex toys are...
Tyrone Davis Jr.
- May 6, 2021
- 2 min
Tenga Spinner Review: Spin Me Around, Again and Again
Today's post is from Tyrone Davis Jr., a sexuality educator and Broadway actor based in New York City. Learn more about his sex ed...
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